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23Sep

Sexual Wellbeing Challenges for the Modern Gay Man

David Stuart

addiction, couple, health, LGBT, love, men, sex, single, society, therapy

Relationships

David Stuart, curator of the wellbeing programmes at the Dean Street NHS sexual health clinic, reveals the challenges unfortunately faced by gay men today - despite all the progress that has been made.
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10Mar

Dealing with Negative Self-Talk and Body Image

Alexandra Jamieson

bodyimage, nutrition, sex, wellbeing, women

Body

Dealing with negative self-talk can be extremely challenging - here's why it's so important to show your body some love and acceptance.
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02Mar

Food and Sex: Should We Give In to Our Cravings?

Alexandra Jamieson

nutrition, sex, wellbeing, women

Body

Taste. Lick. Suck. Bite. This thing we do, every day, all day long, is a driving desire in life. We work for it, think about it, crave things to consume. The innocent act of eating can sound so lustful. And, eating food is, at its core, incredibly sexual. Birds and bees pollinate flowers, the sexual organs of fruiting trees and plants, and we eat the results of these unions. In fact, eating is the most intimate thing we do with other people…in public. We take nourishment into our bodies at every meal, just as we take another person into us when...
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18Feb

The Psychology of 50 Shades of Grey

Jacqueline Palmer

culture, films, psychology, sex

Mind

Jacqueline Palmer explores the psychology of controversial best-seller 50 Shades of Grey and the potentially damaging messages the now-movie conveys.
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05Dec

Sex: Have You Ever Regretted The Night Before?

Terri Apter

men, sex, single, society, women

Relationships

Is there a topic more emotive, fraught and confused than sex and consent, versus sex and coercion? Impaled on the shameful histories of silencing women and violence against women, many solutions are value driven but goal blind.  How far will the recent call for explicit consent go in protecting women from being victims of rape and men from being perpetrators of rape? One in seven students who responded said that they had experienced serious physical or sexual assault at University. In an NUS survey conducted four years ago, one in seven students who...
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10Sep

Cheating - Should You Confess?

Kate Figes

couple, love, marriage, sex

Relationships

Is honesty the best policy if you have been caught cheating on your partner? Kate Figes weighs up the pros and cons
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29Aug

Drugs, Sex and Gay Clubs

Chris Taylor

addiction, counselling, depression, LGBT, sex

Therapists

We are constantly being bombarded by messages telling us we all should expect better sex and we are not getting it right if our social life is not constantly hectic and we're not acquiring Facebook friends exponentially. In other words the pressure is on, to succeed. I first met Matt about eight months ago, and his story was certainly far from unfamiliar to me. I remember asking him what he wanted from counselling and how he felt it would help him? “ I want somebody who will understand me and where I am coming from, I don't want to be judged; just understood”! He...
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13Jun

The Psychology of a One-Night Stand

Terri Apter

LGBT, sex, single

Relationships

The stereotype of a one-night stand is a brutally selfish, egoistically satisfied male, and a woman shamed by regret and disappointment. Yet a memorable counter offensive was launched more than 40 years ago when Erica Jong, in her novel Fear of Flying, celebrated a female fantasy where “zippers fell away like rose petals, underwear blew off in one breath like dandelion fluff”. And, with the subsiding ecstasy, your partner melted away, freeing you both from embarrassment and commitment. For many men and women, this is the promise of a one-night stand.  The “zipless...
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27Mar

How Do I Talk To My Therapist About Sex?

Monika Dedus

counselling, couples, intimacy, love, relationships, sex, therapy

Therapists

Sex may be a difficult topic to talk about, but you might be convinced when you learn how every relationship could be improved by talking to a sex therapist. Here's some tips from psychosexual therapist Monika Dedus.
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19Mar

Getting to Know Your Genitals

Monika Dedus

self, sex, therapy, women

Therapists

Psychosexual therapist Monika Dedus explains why many women have a disconnected relationship with their genitals
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